Her
method is simple: correction must be done indirectly but creatively, so that
reprimand is directed at the behavior and not the person.
Footsteps filled the corridor as she
hurried to her destination.
Glancing at the sheet of paper in her
hands, she took a breath and pushed open the door.
A group of young men looked up, froze,
and then …
“Welcome back Miss! Where have you
been? We miss you!”
Salmaliza Salleh, 35 had been away for
3 weeks during which she underwent surgery of her eyes.
She teaches Civil Engineering at SEGi University, a private university in the suburbs of Kota Damansara.
Salmaliza: All smiles all day |
She teaches Civil Engineering at SEGi University, a private university in the suburbs of Kota Damansara.
Her students’ warm welcome and their
queries about her post-surgery condition is no surprise since Salmaliza had
been voted Favorite Lecturer by engineering students at the university.
Wide-eyed and ever ready to break into
a smile, this cheerful instructor admits she enjoys being around her students
and interacting with them in class.
“When I’m at home I feel stressed and
uncomfortable. The moment I step on campus, all my cares just evaporate into
thin air!” she says.
Salmaliza
says she has surprisingly few, if any, problems with her students.
“I always have a full class, which presents
a challenge for me because of their incessant chatter!”
Although her students faithfully show
up for classes, Salmaliza has other things to grapple with such as maintaining
order in class, getting her students to listen when she speaks and giving reprimand
when they don’t behave.
With her own unique style of dealing
with students, she seems to handle their idiosyncrasies seamlessly; they do not
fight back, instead they obediently do as she asks.
Her method is simple: correction must
be done indirectly but creatively, so that reprimand is directed at the
behavior and not the person.
Salmaliza recalls one of her classes
where one student had been missing for two classes in a row.
When she asked the other students about
his absence, they replied they hadn’t a clue.
“I told the class that because of that,
they will get an impromptu quiz on that day.
From then onwards, every time someone
is absent, there will be at least one from the class who will inform me about
the reason of his absence,” she chuckled.
“They are in a class together, and I
want them to learn to care for each other,” she said.
No doubt there will always be the bad
apples – students who challenge their instructors and are playful in class. How
does she handle them?
“If the student uses a joke to poke fun
at me, I sometimes make another joke to poke back at him.
“After that he will back down and
become quiet.”
Unconventional as they are, her methods
appear to be highly effective.
“I owe it to my parenting experience at
home,” says the mother of three.
All three of her children have
different personalities, she says, which calls for different parenting
approaches.
Her eldest son, Irfan, 7 is the most
obedient of the lot. When reprimanded he would go silent, hand his head and
obediently do as he is told.
Her 5-year-old daughter is the direct
opposite.
“She is the rebel.
“If I shout at her, she will shout back
at me five times louder!
“With her I have to gently tell her
that what she did was wrong and what she should have done.
“For the youngest one, screaming at him
is the only thing that will work!”
At most times, however, Salmaliza is
strict but gentle with her children.
“My husband says I should scold them
more,” she laughs.
The same maternal care is brought to
the classroom, where she treats her students like her own children.
She goes on to explain that she wants
her students, especially those who are far from their homeland to feel cared
for and comfortable. Only then will they enjoy the subject matter and do well
academically.
“I teach students as individuals, not
as a group.
“Not everyone can get strings of A’s.
“It’s about feeling appreciated and
giving them the confidence to strive ahead.”
Explanation through demonstration |
Despite playing a motherly role in
class, she has a clear separation between teaching and her personal life.
Weekdays are mainly taken up by work,
leaving only night time when she ensures her children complete their homework.
Weekends are reserved for family, when
she and her husband will take the children out to watch movies or just for a
stroll in the park.
This time is important to her since she
does not get to spend much time with her children and husband during the week, although
her husband is also an Engineering graduate.
The two met when they were in
university.
At that time Salmaliza had finished her
Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia (SPM) examinations with a miserable two A’s.
Her kuih-selling mother went knocking on the doors of
various institutions of higher learning to beg for a place for her daughter.
At one particular university, the
administrator attending to them blatantly told Salmaliza’s mother that she was
degrading herself by doing this given her daughter’s poor results.
This caused zeal to arise within
Salmaliza, who was determined to buck up and prove herself worthy.
“I told the administrator that I would
work hard to improve my standing and get a job at the same university with a higher
salary than her.
“I wanted to prove her wrong!”
So after retaking her SPM and passing with flying colors, she applied to the same university, which offered her a place
in the male-dominated Engineering field, graduated and got a job there.
“One day I went to look for the
administrator and asked if she remembered me.
“I said ‘Do you remember what you told
an old lady a few years ago?’
“And I told her that “here I am,
working here and I have a higher salary than you!”
“Then I quit and went on to do my
Master’s.”
It was there while she was pursuing her
engineering degree that she met the man who would later become her beloved
husband.
“We got married three days before our
convocation,” she said gleefully.
Her experiences through thick and thin has
made her who she is today – a dedicated instructor who loves being around
people and enjoys investing into their lives.
Getting along well and being liked by
people does not mean she is free from any idiosyncrasies: she has an aversion
to furry animals.
“Cats, hamsters, anything with fur
gives me the creeps,” she says.
“Even seeing them on television or in
print makes me feel ticklish.
“I have no problem with reptiles
though.
“I love snakes! I caught one in my
house the other day because I’ve seen how they do it on National Geographic.
“I would love to take a photo with one
around my neck!”
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